Breaking
up poses many questions:
Did you
love me at all?
How could
you think about losing me?
Am I not
worth fighting for?
Yeah, you
get the drama.
All these
questions multiply and intensify once you ex finds a new partner before you do.
Especially if you personally haven’t moved on.
Last week,
I was planning on meeting Matty to talk. In fact, we’ve already made initial
arrangements but we didn’t have a final schedule yet. He agreed to meet me
either on a Friday night after work (yes, another midnight-to-morning
sacrifice), or on a Saturday night. I didn’t bother asking him whether he’d
keep it a secret from his new girl or not. I just wanted all my questions
answered.
I drafted
all my Qs as to be prepared should he suddenly call for our meet-up. But the
days went by and I started to doubt whether it was the right thing to do. One
night I randomly searched for articles online about relationships and breaking
up, until I got the answer I needed.
I decided;
I told him I didn’t need to do “the talk” anymore. Hi didn’t reply.
Up to now
I’m clueless on whether he read my message or not, or if he cared at all. But I
should be firm with my decision. No communication, no stalking, and if
possible, no lingering thoughts about him.
If you can’t
do that, how can you move on?
Moving on
step #3: Leave the questions unanswered and build a new truth for yourself.
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